You know, I have a good life, and always have I guess, never wanting for anything. I've had (to me) a successful career, I had a good marriage many years ago (which for various reasons ended), I've had my ups and downs with relationships since then. I've helped raise 3 boys over the last 12 yrs (on, off and on) who weren't my kids, with some good results and not so good results. I confess, for … [Read more...]

I've heard many times over the years that 1. Some people don't understand my sense of humor, or 2. don't realize I'm kidding. I've also learned over the yrs some people do not "understand" sarcasm. Anyway, lots of times I post on here I'm trying to be "funny", but I guess some people don't see it that way. But really, how many husbands, boy friends or SOs do you know that would sit beside their … [Read more...]

1) Three Names I go by: Zeek (1988-89) BUG (Big Ugly Guy) (1997-2001) Big B (2001-present) 2) Three Jobs I had in my life: Cook at KFC Janitor Warehouse person 3) Three places I have lived: Saint Clair Shores/Detroit, MI La Puente/ Los Angeles, CA Twin Cities, MN 4) Three favorite drinks: Mountain Dew Lemonade Orgasms (kaluha, baileys, amaretto) 5) Three TV shows that … [Read more...]

Please read with a "grain of salt". [I wrote this up in May with the intention of posting it then, but I'm just getting "round to it" now.] I’m a closet Farmville addict. Ok, to be truthful, Farmville was not my gig…The aquarium apps such as “Happy fish”, My aquarium”, and “Fish world”, and then there’s the “paradise island” genre as well that was taking up an hour or two of my time each day. … [Read more...]